It is over. I am an ex person

It is over. I will stop looking for women. There is no longer any chance for me to escape loneliness and I must embrace hatred, destruction and punishment now.

The girl from my previous post has rejected me. My last chance came later today when another girl answered my ad but she was just another airhead moron who wanted to talk to me on a cellphone and said I’m too quiet because I couldn’t giggle at everything like an idiot the way she did.

My best chances were likely gone by 2004. That was the time to lose my virginity, screw around and have a girlfriend. I had brilliant chances but I wasted them all by being too scared to meet these women face to face. I was in deep, deep trouble by early 2005, before I turned 17.

My two successful dates happened in 2007 and 2009, while I was very shy, inexperienced, both a virgin and a love-shy. Hell, during that I barely even knew how to kiss and my experience amounted to no more than 3-4 dates before the first success and 5-6 dates before the second.

Why, then, did I fail to achieve any success in 2013? This is the year in which I had many comparative advantages. Two most important ones come to mind

1. At the beginning of 2013 I was no longer love-shy and no longer a virgin.
2. I went on dates with more women than any time previously. Actually, with more women that those pre-2013 combined.

Despite this my only success was a friends-with-benefits relationship with a disgusting, mentally ill woman and one time sex I had to pay for. In terms of a relationship, WHICH WAS MY MOST IMPORTANT GOAL, my result was zero out of twenty five !

What are the reasons for that? How could this be explained?

Well, I think that the main reason is time.

In over 10 years time has transformed my circumstances from great to atrocious.

These SMS flerts are no longer full of women. Due to me getting older I’m forced to talk to women who are getting progressively more older and thus more jaded and picky. I am losing my youthful looks and stamina.

While most men are more attractive at 25 than 16 or 19 this isn’t the case for me because of three main reasons

1. My experience with relationships/sex isn’t much greater than when I was 16 or 19.

2. Since I never approach in real life I depended on something that is now gone to show my attractiveness at all.

3. Unlike most men, I have had terrible experiences during the last 6-9 years, and they can be seen in the way I look, talk and act in general.

Like I said in point 3, most men don’t have such circumstances and are thus usually more attractive at 25 than 16 or 19.

But not me. My weariness, frustration, desperation and years of deprivation can be seen on my face, the way I walk, everything. And this is one the reasons why I now have less success than when I was much more shy and inexperienced.

Of course, that is just one of the reasons. Not all of the reasons have to do with me. During these 10 years women of all ages have turned worse, thanks to the advancing idiocracy and I am also forced to deal with older and older women, who are, like I said, jaded and picky, unlike the teenage girls from 2003-2004.

And this is why I can no longer find anybody.

Some time in October I was fantasizing about moving abroad and finding a wife there but that is just fantasy. I am too poor for that and always will be.

I am forced to die alone and I’m giving up.

But my giving up won’t mean that I’m now turning to anything positive in life. That is not possible. Relationships and sex aren’t nuisances but good things. By giving up on even looking for them I am giving up on my life in general.

I must repeat what I said in the beginning – I must embrace hatred, destruction and punishment now. I must concentrate on punishing society now. There will be no mercy for I have been given none.

87 thoughts on “It is over. I am an ex person

  1. There’s an interesting piece I read a few days ago, called “The 14 Habits of Highly Miserable People”. You can find it here: http://www.alternet.org/personal-health/14-habits-highly-miserable-people

    A few that stick out having read a series of your posts:

    3. Give yourself a negative identity. Allow a perceived emotional problem to absorb all other aspects of your self-identification. If you feel depressed, become a Depressed Person; if you suffer from social anxiety or a phobia, assume the identity of a Phobic Person or a Person with Anxiety Disorder. Make your condition the focus of your life. Talk about it to everybody, and make sure to read up on the symptoms so you can speak about them knowledgeably and endlessly. Practice the behaviors most associated with that condition, particularly when it’ll interfere with regular activities and relationships. Focus on how depressed you are and become weepy, if that’s your identity of choice. Refuse to go places or try new things because they make you too anxious. Work yourself into panic attacks in places it’ll cause the most commotion. It’s important to show that you don’t enjoy these states or behaviors, but that there’s nothing you can do to prevent them.

    9. Blame your parents. Blaming your parents for your defects, shortcomings, and failures is among the most important steps you can take. After all, your parents made you who you are today; you had nothing to do with it. If you happen to have any good qualities or successes, don’t give your parents credit. Those are flukes.

    Extend the blame to other people from your past: the second-grade teacher who yelled at you in the cafeteria, the boy who bullied you when you were 9, the college professor who gave you a D on your paper, your first boyfriend, even the hick town you grew up in—the possibilities are limitless. Blame is essential in the art of being miserable.

    11. Ruminate. Spend a great deal of time focused on yourself. Worry constantly about the causes of your behavior, analyze your defects, and chew on your problems. This will help you foster a pessimistic view of your life. Don’t allow yourself to become distracted by any positive experience or influence. The point is to ensure that even minor upsets and difficulties appear huge and portentous.

    You can ruminate on the problems of others or the world, but make them about you. Your child is sick? Ruminate on what a burden it is for you to take time off from work to care for her. Your spouse is hurt by your behavior? Focus on how terrible it makes you feel when he points out how you make him feel. By ruminating not only on your own problems but also those of others, you’ll come across as a deep, sensitive thinker who holds the weight of the world on your shoulders.

  2. But do you really think that you will realistically feel any better once you’ve changed into this hateful, vindictive person that you have chosen to embrace? You can give up on looking for a gf without turning into a monster. After reading your blog, I do think it would be good for you to stop focusing so much on finding a relationship and allowing your lack thereof to define you as a person. I think that you come across as obsessed with finding a girl and losing your incel label, to the point that you may be sabotaging yourself by giving off this desperate vibe when you meet or talk to women (no girl wants a guy who reeks of desperation.) I think that once you lose that vibe about yourself and stop caring so much about getting into a relationship, the problem may just work itself out since chicks do want a relationship with the guy who doesn’t want one in return, they want that challenge and the thrill of the chase. Just saying, its all well and good that you want to stop obsessing over finding a girlfriend but do you think that “embracing hatred” is taking a step in the right direction? Why would you give so much power to the girls who’ve rejected you, by allowing this lack of romantic success to become your one defining factor in life, rendering you an “ex person” just because you haven’t been lucky in the love department? Why does negativity/hate/the possibility of death or jail time have to accompany your decision to give up looking for women? Why not just say “fuck bitches” and play some Grand Theft Auto or WOW, enjoy some fun activities that have nothing to do with women, and figure if it happens it happens but if not, who cares, you can have a good time chilling with your mates, playing Xbox, or doing any of the many other activities that people do for fun that have nothing to do with women OR hatred, punishment, destruction etc etc

    • T.Rex:
      Look at the culture we live in. Are decent men rewarded? No. “The hateful, vindictive monsters” you speak of, are.

      I do agree with you though, that in this dysfunctional culture, a man’s worth is NOT defined by his sexuality (in fact, it’s usually the reverse). But most of these Bitches aren’t worth the cost of a relationship, anyway, it may be a better approach to pull back and find a way around them (that’s kind of what I’ve done, but haven’t found the way yet LOL)

      • Are decent men rewarded? No. “The hateful, vindictive monsters” you speak of, are.

        OP is identifying with hateful, vindictive men like this. They aren’t rewarded by society — they’re shunned and scorned because of their deviant characteristics and lack of social skills, which causes their shit to fester. They’re pathetic and they die pathetic.

        I’m curious: when you envision “find[ing] a way around” bitches (assuming you’re referring to women), does this mean becoming gay?

  3. GGGF:
    The reason you can’t find anybody has nothing to with the way you look or bad experiences. Just look at the numbers of women who throw themselves at complete dirtbags who are even older than we are, and poor, ugly, unemployed, and with long criminal histories to boot.

    Like Franklin observed in the last post, the culture is to blame. I don’t know where you live, but from the sounds of things it’s some part of Europe infested with man-hating femihags just like here in the US—there’s hope, but we have to get away from these toxic women and around some real ones first.

    • Justin,
      That a question that only an incel can understand. Women/society hates us, not only do they hate us, but they steal our money, and at the same time blow sunshine up our ass, by saying how good we have life, and how those poor unfortunate women with all their babies are struggling to buy food, and how they need our taxes to survive.. and then, as soon as our back is turned, they call us losers/creeps. Well, pssss.. Maybe if those poor women, would have given the incel with a job a chance, instead of chasing her bad boy, then her and her babies would not need to rely on the guberment services. They made their bed, now it is time to sleep in it.

      • Dmitry:
        There’s more than just a ‘few thousand’ of these Bitches on the public dole; even more if you count government-enforced alimony. More typically though, the ‘Bad Boys’ are on welfare AND being supported by female enablement; most often the woman is employed, but not infrequently on welfare and/or receiving alimony. A huge percentage of the kids women from all classes have with these thugs are subsidized by the government—now until the age of 26 thanks to Obamacare.

    • I can just give you a basic outline. You’ll have to read future articles to really understand.

      Basically, incel is a painful, abnormal situation that is literally a living death and will ensure that I’ll commit suicide. I never got any help from my parents, government or peers in beating it. While unsuccessfully trying to beat it I was also treated abysmally my many, many women, which caused me great pain.
      This is why I must do these things.

  4. thatincelblogger, how old are you? I found success at 28 by escaping from America. Before 28, my situation was worse than yours. Make a post titled “Discuss solutions” and ignore comments by the Modernist idiots. Let’s see if a solution can’t be found.

  5. rantsofanincel says:

    “That a question that only an incel can understand.”

    If only one type of person can understand it, then it’s an excuse not an explanation. Why does one need to embrace hate and punish society.

    “Women/society hates us, not only do they hate us, but they steal our money, and at the same time blow sunshine up our ass, by saying how good we have life, and how those poor unfortunate women with all their babies are struggling to buy food, and how they need our taxes to survive.. and then, as soon as our back is turned, they call us losers/creeps. Well, pssss.. Maybe if those poor women, would have given the incel with a job a chance, instead of chasing her bad boy, then her and her babies would not need to rely on the guberment services. They made their bed, now it is time to sleep in it.”

    Okay what about women who aren’t on government support? What about women who do not have children? Why not mingle with women who have steady jobs and no children? That tends to be most of them.

    • eh-hem… Ah no.. Where I live, the vast majority of women have children, and in the US the number of women on guberment support numbers in the tens of millions. Even if you were right, women most always vote for big nanny guberment state, whether they are on welfare or not.

      • If a woman votes for welfare measures without themselves being on them…then they are still paying for them with their tax dollars. You seem not to realize that there are highly paid professional childless women.

      • The number of people with government subsidized housing or welfare is roughly 12 million. That leaves about 288 million people who are not. More than half are female, less than half are married. That’s somewhere in the range of 72 million…which is around 12 times as many women not supported by the government than are. At least in U.S.A.

      • Well where do you live?

        I looked it up: 12 million men and women, including government student loans and disability benefits…unless you’re looking for a senior citizen, then it’s about 48 million. Certainly not tens of millions of women. I think it’s important to keep some perspective.

        But, if you’re not intetested in “liberals” then while it’s good that you’re choosing to be selective, you do have to recognize that it is your choice to reject a large portion of the younger women because of social and political leanings. You can’t put that blame on them.

  6. I’m am really sorry it didn’t work out. I may not know you in real life but know I was honestly rooting for you to succeed. i’m am also really sorry you got treated badly by enough people you feel this is the route you need to take. Wish there was something I could do to help out.

  7. “Basically, incel is a painful, abnormal situation that is literally a living death and will ensure that I’ll commit suicide. I never got any help from my parents, government or peers in beating it. ” Why do you want your parents or government fucking you?

    • dmitry, you seem to have some kind of supernatural ability to pull the immense volumes of shit no human being can produce in like an year out of your ass and post it here.

      I never said my parents should fuck me, just that I asked my mother for it when I was desperate. I don’t know how a government can virtually fuck somebody.

      “To be honest, what this guy needs is to stop desperately looking for women for a year or so and work out his own personal problems”

      This is imbecilic and outright dangerous. First and foremost, you don’t have your facts straight…

      “. The few dates that he seems to get are promptly ruined by the huge amount of baggage he brings to the table. Nobody wants damaged goods. ”

      Few dates? I’ve been to around 20 just this year, as was mentioned in the last article. Also, you’re fabricating nonsense again. None of these women know about my past or my problems. What they know about, however, is…

      “Once he works out his severe psychological hang-ups, I guarantee he will see more success on the dating front.”

      … the kind of shit that not looking for a woman for an year or so would exacerbate. Desperation, awkwardness, seeing women as lottery winning tickets, all that shit would be even worse if I gave up on dating for an year. What a moronic idea.

      That’s like saying that not training athletics for an year would make you get a world record.

      That being said, I have given up, but not for your idiotic, unrealistic reasons but because I no longer see the point. It doesn’t mean anything good. It means the end of my life.

  8. “Asking your mother to fuck you: nobody does that. Ever. The only ones that do are people with severe personality disorders. ”

    You have no evidence for that and I disagree with you. I, on the other hand, think some sexually desperate, frustrated men would do that.

    “The mere fact that you ever did that should show that the problem with you being partner-less is you, and not all womankind.”

    But it doesn’t show me this. Despite me doing that I could still be a decent person and women could still be shit. Just like somebody who never did this can still be a piece of shit.

    “You are initiating dates without fixing the reason for their failure: yourself. Does an Olympic swimmer try and train for the triathlon with a broken leg? No, and working it too hard will make it worse.”

    Nah, you’re a dumbass. You’re living in a fucking delusion. You think that doing this or thinking that will make me lovable somehow. It won’t. The truth is much simpler – I missed my chances by the time I was 17 and everything I did later was irrelevant. The sole idea that you think anything might change now, 10 years too late, is a proof of your delusion. You’ll be able to understand this better soon, keep following the blog.

    ” Except for the one you told that you’d kill yourself. Here’s a free dating tip: DO NOT DO THAT. I have no idea what would possess you to talk about that, but that right there should be the big, shining example of why dates fail. And yes, I know the date went south before this event, but again… Why? Why, why, why would you talk about this?”

    Alright, but that’s just one date. Others weren’t like that. As for why I said it I dunno and who cares.

    “You’re a big boy now, you can stand being dateless for a year in the same way that a misbehaving 6-year-old can stand not having cookies for dessert.”

    I could stand it, but why should I? There will be no reward. After this year you’re talking about passes my chances will be even more pathetic then they are now, and right now they’re extremely pathetic.

    “Your problem is obviously not lack of dates — you seem to have a frequency of them — but your personality flaws that are driving people away. Deep self-reflection and working on bettering yourself is what’s needed, not “just one more date”.”

    Well, now that you finally realize that my problem isn’t a lack of dates (which you apparently realized today though I’ve talked about it for ages) you immediately go into another assumption – that I am what’s driving all these women away while they’re perfect angels.
    And, no, self-reflection and working on bettering myself won’t help at all for the future. These phrases are just shit in expensive gift wrapping.

    “If every other male on the planet can do it, so can you.”

    Can do what? You do know that I’m not the only incel on the planet, do you?

  9. I’d argue that fixing “unemployed and living with his parents” would be a pretty helpful step towards solving the incel thing, at his age.

    • First of all, I don’t even live with my parents. Dmitry72 has a tendency to pull stuff out of his ass all the time. As for being employed that seems reasonable at a first glance. Unfortunately, it is completely false and people who believe this are imbeciles.

  10. dmitry, I don’t wanna work. One of my future articles will be called “A case against work” and will recommend incel men not to work at all unless they want to go abroad and can spare enough money by working.

    • “Why not? You realize, of course, that that is what adults do, right? If nobody did work, nobody would reap the benefits of modern society, including the very computer you type your responses on.”

      Incels who work, unless they work to try abroad, are morons. However, I mean INCELS, not asexual or aromantic people. They are either suckers or have some extreme mental problems. What kind of an idiot would work while unable to get relationships or unpaid sex? Being employed won’t make you stop being incel unless you make 6 figures, which is impossible with a normal job anyway.

      “Furthermore, if you don’t work, you don’t pay taxes, which means your original goal — to get the state to help you out of your incel — is non-applicable to you since you don’t contribute to the tax base.”

      Um… I am not sure what you’re referring to. You do know I’ve abandoned the idea that governments should help incels? That I changed the name of this blog and my nickname because of this? As for the state helping me personally that’s another thing completely. I want the officials to help me in their free time.

      “Also, you didn’t answer my question: if you don’t work, who pays your bills?”

      I’m on social security and my parents help out sometimes.

      I have a question for you- your IP shows that you’re from a pretty.. hm, exotic place, at least compared to most visitors of this blog. Is this IP correct and are you a citizen of that country or just visiting/working there/something else?

    • So, you don’t want to work, but you do want a girlfriend. I take it that you are unintetested in getting married or raising a family.

      What do you do with yourself. You obsess over incel, and then what? You don’t have a career, or a job. What are your hobbies, interests, or skills?

    • Guys, there is a problem with your questions. They seem reasonable at first hand. However, they’re approaching the matter from a noncel normative perspective. A perspective that essentially denies or is unable to see incel.

      dmitry – 1. Work is absolutely about whether you’re incel or not. Most people who have been incel for as long as I have doesn’t care about financial security or standard of living. What they “care” about, if I can use that word, is dying. They know they’ll never get a girlfriend unless they can make six figures and they don’t see any sense in working. Why? To live their entire lives without a girlfriend? Makes no sense.

      2. Your point about my state is senseless. My former program would have helped people regardless of whether they pay taxes and my state won’t help me regardless of whether I pay taxes. So what is the point you were trying to make? You think they’d help me if I started paying taxes? Yes, I don’t think so either.

      3. I don’t want to work because I am incel. Incel is painful and destroys all motivation. If I weren’t incel I’d want to work. This is best witnessed by my state during the two relationships I had. Despite them being bad and unsatisfying I at least had a girlfriend and could turn my thoughts to other things in life, like making money. When I’m incel I simply don’t care about that.

      “So, you don’t want to work, but you do want a girlfriend. I take it that you are unintetested in getting married or raising a family.”

      I’d find the motivation to work if I had a girlfriend. Since I very likely won’t have one there is no motivation.

      I’d also find the motivation to work if that would get me a girlfriend. Since my experiences while I was employed and experiences of my employed friends show that nothing about being employed helps you find a girlfriend there is, again, no motivation.

      “What do you do with yourself. You obsess over incel, and then what? You don’t have a career, or a job. What are your hobbies, interests, or skills?”

      Irrelevant to this point or this blog altogether. It won’t get me a girlfriend.

      “GGG–your parents are helping support you financially, but you want them prosecuted for murder?”

      Once again, a question from a noncel normative perspective.

      Let me put it like this- I WANT MY PARENTS PROSECUTED FOR NOT HELPING ME BEAT INCEL. IF THEY HAD HELPED ME BEAT INCEL IN TIME I’D BE WILLING AND ABLE TO SUPPORT MYSELF.

      WHAT MY PARENTS DID IS AKIN TO CUTTING OFF THEIR CHILD’S LIMBS AND THEN SAYING HOW GREAT THEY ARE BY SUPPORTING THE LIMBLESS CHILD.

      • I said: “What do you do with yourself. You obsess over incel, and then what? You don’t have a career, or a job. What are your hobbies, interests, or skills?”

        GGGG Said: “Irrelevant to this point or this blog altogether. It won’t get me a girlfriend.”

        Yes, that might be true. But do you have something? Is there anything in your life that doesn’t revolve around getting a girlfriend?

        I just think it might be a good idea to have a hobby, or a job, or a career that brings you some joy that won’t get crushed when you feel rejected. Not only that, but perhaps something that will build your confidence without relying on women to build it, and perhaps even meet new women. Your whole identity is wrapped up in incel. What would happen if you found a girlfriend? Who would you be then?

        You said before that you don’t have motivation to even get a job unless you have a girlfriend. That’s not helping things. Don’t most of these guys who are getting the girls have jobs? Doesn’t that make them more attractive? And no, not all guys who have gotten the girl pull down six figures.

        You should have enough self-respect to at least take care of yourself, and have some pride regardless of whether you have a girlfriend or not, don’t you think?

  11. “But plenty of people don’t make that kind of money, and yet they find partners, so with the rare exception of multi-millionaires, the amount of money you make has little to do with finding a stable relationship. ”

    You really are hilariously stupid. Sorry, no other way to say it. Yeah, these people you’re talking about are called noncels. This blog isn’t about noncels but incels. So, why are you talking about noncels here? What do they have to do with anything? Again, you’re being noncel normative.

    “And especially so: do you really want a woman who would love you for making $110 000/year but not if you make $90 000/year?”

    Most incels would want a woman to love them based on any reason whatsoever. Anyway, my point was something else- once you hit six figures you can expect that this amount of money might affect the change of your incel status. If you make less it is all the same and you shouldn’t be working at all, as you won’t get a woman and you’re not a robot or a worker bee.

    “This is one of the reasons I lay the charge at your feet that you don’t understand how the world works. How would your program help people if they don’t pay taxes? Who would you get to help you that would be willing to work for free? In modern society, if you want something out of it, you have to put something into it (which is one of the great parallels between society and relationships).”

    Actually, I do know how the world works but you don’t know how reading comprehension and basic intelligence work. I never said that nobody should pay taxes. All I said is that incels shouldn’t work because it won’t get them a woman. Unfortunately, most of them still do, usually because they are stupid suckers.

    “One of the most basic requirements women often have of men in their late twenties and beyond is gainful employment, or at the very least realistic prospects for employment. By refusing to work, you are prematurely taking yourself out of the running. Imagine going to a job interview and saying, “well I refuse to bathe and groom because I don’t have a job, but if I did I would shower every day, yes-sirree.” That would be cold comfort from their perspective.”

    That is a very trivial problem which could be solved by lying to women that you are employed. You fail to understand what the problem is- THE PROBLEM ISN’T THAT INCELS DON’T HAVE PARTNERS BECAUSE THEY LACK JOBS, THE PROBLEM IS THEY DON’T HAVE PARTNERS EVEN WHILE THEY DO HAVE JOBS. Women do care if you’re employed or not to a certain degree but that’s ultimately irrelevant because they also have other criteria and incels don’t fill those.

    “I highly doubt that. Take two identical men with identical looks, personality, etc., and present them to a woman. Tell her the one on the left has a job, and the other is unemployed. Which do you think she will choose?”

    Irrelevant. I am talking about incels here and what you’re presenting here is a virtually impossible hypothetical situation. Anyway, what do you doubt? That I didn’t have a gf when I had a job? That my employed friends are incels? All of this is true.

    “What would they be charged with? Is “help Thatincelblogger with his incel” a law in your country? For perspective, most men (myself included) did not require their parents to “help” them with incel. Well-adjusted children do it on their own.”

    They should be charged with child abuse. I will explain this later. Anyway, you seem to be conflating well adjusted and noncel. They are usually the same thing, but I don’t understand what you’re trying to say here. That most people are noncel? We all know that.

    “This strikes me as ungrateful; your parents obviously do support you if they help you financially even after you assaulted them (and apparently want them dead).”

    I repeat- WHAT MY PARENTS DID IS AKIN TO CUTTING OFF THEIR CHILD’S LIMBS AND THEN SAYING HOW GREAT THEY ARE BY SUPPORTING THE LIMBLESS CHILD.

    If they had helped me with incel I’d probably be in a relationship or married now, and I’d have a job and could take care of myself. Things being as they are, I will die alone and will never have a job again.

    “How? What positive action did they take that prevented you from functioning in a relationship? More to the point, how would you have had them help you with your incel? What COULD they have done?”

    The first and second question are basically the same. Also, you mention something about functioning in a relationship. The main problem wasn’t that but even entering a relationship.

    They could have helped me with my love-shyness by using “the prostitute scam” and they could have helped me meet potential partners. First option was much more crucial. Applying the second without applying the first would leave me love-shy and thus dependent on girls taking the initiative. Have you read my page on what love-shyness is?

  12. “You keep saying these things, that I am stupid, lazy, have poor reading comprehension, etc. etc. etc. And yet, I have a wife, a good job, and all in all a great life, and you are miserable and alone.”

    Irrelevant to this discussion. I do believe that all of this is true but why does it matter? You still make silly assumptions all the time and can’t reason for shit. This was evident from your first post, when you said incel is about sex, and you carried on doing this shit in almost every post, including this one, where you say that I think that my mother would have helped me by having sex with me. This isn’t true. By the time I asked for this I was already a 22 year-old virgin, which means too old to be helped anyway. It was merely an act of desperation.

    ” If that is a result of being “hilariously stupid,” then ignorance truly is bliss.”

    You are right. Most people are morons and this helps.

    “Trust me on this: no you don’t. It does feel good to have a piece of arm-candy for the first few minutes, but if I understand the kind of relationship you desire, you will not find it there.”

    Idiotic nonsense. I’m so desperate that I’d have a relationship at gunpoint if I only could. You fail to understand how desperate most incels are. Btw, it’s not like women can ever really like a man, they just like what he can give them. So being rich is a good way to avoid incel. But you don’t get rich by having a 9 to 5 job.

    “See, that just makes you lazy and deluded. You cannot see the value of work beyond how it affects your incel”

    Yes, because working won’t rid me of this lethal problem.

    “and you feel like you owe nothing to the society that has been so kind to you (remember, you are reaping the same social benefits as low-income families and gravely-ill people).”

    No, it hasn’t been kind to me. A kind society would have facilities for people like me, and this would enable me to have motivation to have my own job as I would be able to have relationships, sex and even family if I wanted to. Due to incel I will never have these things.

    “But you feel you shouldn’t pay taxes. And your delusion is showing again: work is never about finding a woman, no matter how much you protest. Your comments to the contrary show your facile attitude of society.”

    Work isn’t about finding a woman in a sense than no woman will be attracted to you just because you work. But it also is about finding a woman in a sense that there’s no point in LIVING if you can’t find a woman, so why would there be any point in working?

    “And that there should show any reader that you are not a good person. No decent human being would consider that an option, and if you can’t see that, well… That’s just another symptom of the problem.”

    You fail to understand the context of my statement. There is no point in living while you’re incel, so there’s also no point in working. You’re more than likely not going to find a woman anyway. Working simply doesn’t pay off for such remote chances of ever finding somebody. However, if you ever do find a woman just lie to her that you’re working until this motivation you find through being with her doesn’t get you a job.

    “You, sir, do not understand basic probability. Your chances, so to speak, of attracting a woman worth a relationship are dismally low if you are unemployed, and considerably higher if you are. Do you really not see this?”

    No, they’re not considerably higher if you’re incel.

    It’s like this actually. If you’re noncel your chances of finding a woman while unemployed are at worst average and somewhat better while you’re employed.

    If you’re incel your chances of finding a woman are abysmally low when you’re unemployed and still abysmally low when you’re not. The difference is something like 0.0001 percent when you’re unemployed to 0.001 when employed. That’s why it is pointless for an incel to work unless he/she has made peace with incel, which no sane person does.

    Do you not see this?

    “I assume they suggested psychiatric help.”

    I was in therapy for years. Every second of it was wasted time. I will never ever see a shrink again.

    “And please… Are you really so naive to think that having your PARENTS set you up with somebody would increase your chances? Why not just get a bowl-cut and a knitted sweater with a picture of a caribou on it? Nothing screams desperation more than having your parents help you with meeting girls.”

    And again, seemingly reasonable but in reality extremely noncel normative. You simply don’t understand my situation. It was desperate enough 10 years ago for my parents to try that. Right now, when I’m 25, it is over.

    “Additionally, you constantly protest that incel is about more than sex (we will disregard for the moment that celibacy, by definition, refers only to sex)”

    No, you don’t have to disregard that. What do constantly do disregard is that some groups make different definitions for some terms. If these definitions make sense they can be valid. Incels did that with expanding the definition of incel and I deem it reasonable. On the other hand, none of the liberal freaks ever gave me a reasonable definition of their sacred words like “privilege” or “entitlement” outside of the dictionary definitions, which means that liberal monsters don’t know what they’re talking about.

    Right here I’ve edited a part of your post as you’re making up shit once again. I never said that having sex with my mother solve me problems or lead to relationships with other women.

    “Never having had sex with a prostitute, I wouldn’t know personally, but I would suspect that screwing a hooker before having a teenage relationship would warp you even more than you are.”

    You obviously have no idea about my past. I was love-shy until 23 and for some time couldn’t even find the courage to meet the women I’ve been talking to via SMS or online in real life. Screwing a hooker in my early teenage years was a dire necessity but the key thing was that I wasn’t supposed to know it was a prostitute because I was too phobic. She was supposed to pretend to seduce me.

    “Most males don’t have sex well into numerous failed relationships, so I don’t see the importance of prostitutes to gaining your first girlfriend.”

    Here we go again with “most males”. You’re once again talking about noncels. I’m not really sure about this “most males don’t have sex well into numerous failed relationships” but if it is true it describes TEENAGE males. Most people in my country lose their virginity by the age of 17.

    I explained to you why the prostitute was crucial above.

    “To be perfectly honest, your project an air of total maladjustment that the overwhelming majority of women would find downright repulsive. Fortunately, you can fix yourself by working to take control of your life before entering a relationship. Unfortunately, you are too stubborn to heed any advice that would suggest that you are the problem and that you need to work to change. In short, you are lazy.”

    No, the problem is that you’re incorrect and blabbing empty phrases.

    • One thing I don’t understand is how your parents would have known you needed a prostitute in this incredibly specific way. I know that (hypothetically; I don’t have children and I never plan to) if my kid was having trouble with getting into a relationship my first thought would not be “this year Santa’s bringing my kid a secret prostitute”.

      (My apologies for such a late comment)

  13. Just because you’re lucky to have a good life doesn’t give you the right to shit on people like him.

    I’ll just say he helped me by being honest. I felt like I was not alone and I feel better now.

    I think he’s a good person.

    • You confuse welfare with a liberal government. There were some countries in the history of the world which weren’t liberal but had welfare. Just because I agree with liberals about some things, like that homophobia and racism (in their original meaning, not the diluted liberal meaning) are bad or that welfare is needed for some people doesn’t mean I’m a liberal.

      Liberalism must be destroyed and all the liberals massacred for other reasons, the most important ones being female suffrage, which enabled women to vote themselves unearned money which would originally be provided by their husbands, which enabled them to no longer pick providers but “sexy” men (see Fisherian runaway). This is why no society which doesn’t first slaughter its liberals and does away with female suffrage can become healthy again.

      • But you AREN´T a provider, you are a welfare freeloader – YOU live on unearned money, not the legions of working and therefor tax-paying women!
        Numerous people did already point it out: the only unhealthy thing to society are people like you: You don´t distribute anything, you only leech up resources.

        Why should we keep and support YOU? You are clearly of no use to society what-so-ever!

        Do you know the saying ” The one who doesn´t hunt, he should not eat!” ?

        • “But you AREN´T a provider, you are a welfare freeloader”

          Irrelevant to what I was saying. I never claimed I was a provider. In fact, I DON’T WANT TO BE A PROVIDER because it no longer gets you women (unless you make six figures). You don’t really want me to be a provider, no, no. Take that stupid thought out of your head.WHAT YOU REALLY WANT TO ME TO BE IS A SEXLESS, AROMANTIC WORKER BEE. BUT THERE IS A PROBLEM WITH THAT- I HAVE EMOTIONAL AND SEXUAL NEEDS AND FEELINGS. And this is why I will never ever work in my life again.

          ” YOU live on unearned money, not the legions of working and therefor tax-paying women!”

          Again, you misunderstand my point completely.

          1. Things like alimony, child support and affirmative action for women are unearned money.

          2. Women work a majority of unproductive, cushy jobs which are actually a drain on the economy.

          “Numerous people did already point it out: the only unhealthy thing to society are people like you: You don´t distribute anything, you only leech up resources.”

          I’m hardly the “only unhealthy thing in society”. If anything, mental patients like you, capable of uttering such nonsense, are a worse problem. Anyway, you misunderstand the reason again – I leech because I have no incentive to work. I don’t wanna be your worker bee. Unless I can get a woman there is no way for me to work.

          “Why should we keep and support YOU? You are clearly of no use to society what-so-ever!

          Do you know the saying ” The one who doesn´t hunt, he should not eat!” ?”

          You’re either

          1. Against any welfare whatsoever.

          2. Unable to understand that incels can’t work because they have no incentive. What is the incentive? To eat? And why should they eat if they can’t get anybody? That’s pointless.

          In either case you’re a moron.

      • (can´t reply directly to your comment)

        Fuck man, your really one kind of a complete lost case… the utter and illogical bullshit you write spares me to answer you, you just ridicule yourself in public all by yourself.
        I´m just happy, it´s not my tax money that´s supporting you!

        The best thing to do for you is to pack a hobo sack and walk all the way to the backwoods of India or something… you would do your country a big favour.

        • “Fuck man, your really one kind of a complete lost case… the utter and illogical bullshit you write spares me to answer you, you just ridicule yourself in public all by yourself.
          I´m just happy, it´s not my tax money that´s supporting you!”

          Yeah, I’m just blown away by the strength and number of arguments here.

          Want me to tell you what all this is about?

          You are unable to understand how much pain incel causes and how it destroys motivation.

          “The best thing to do for you is to pack a hobo sack and walk all the way to the backwoods of India or something… you would do your country a big favour.”

          Because my country, which did nothing to help me for years, despite all my pleadings, and killed two incels I know of, is just so deserving of favors? Moron….

      • Aono:
        I can tell that you don’t live in America. The kinds of men who are ‘providers’ are shunned here. Take 10 hot, sexy, professional, educated women over here and odds are that 9 are supporting some worthless bum or criminal boyfriend (and the 10th is a lesbo). That’s in addition to the welfare the guys are already getting.

        I don’t necessarily agree that GGGF’s way is best; but I know a growing number of men over here who’ve dropped out of productive society and live on welfare for the simple reason that working, productive American men are treated like losers by women and as parasites by the culture as a whole. I have my own business—the consensus of most of American culture is that makes me either a sucker or an exploiter. The only reason I don’t drop out myself is because I like being politically incorrect, buying nice things, and sticking it in the eyes of libtards that way!

  14. dmitry, this will be my last reply to you for a very long time. You are a definition of utter moron. I am also putting you on moderation for your defamation and insults.

    “Well, Thatincelblogger, I have to say I am flabbergasted.”

    Oh, I can well believe you are. The problem is, you’re flabbergasted for all the wrong reasons. You’re not flabbergasted because I’m unreasonable but because of your stupidity, violence, a complete lack of empathy and reading comprehension, as well as your noncel normativity.

    “Only in the religious-fundamentalist community have I seen such stubbornness and wilfull ignorance. ”

    This is not about either of those. This is about you not having enough information and thus judging some of my thoughts and actions as irrational. They are not. You are the irrational one for making such judgments while lacking enough information. Why do you do that? Because you’re a moron.

    “This may or may not be my last comment for the foreseeable future, but I believe I am through white-knighting for you.”

    This should be your last comment for the foreseeable future. You will get a beating now and then you’ll finally shut up and READ. I dunno when will all these articles appear, as I’m mentally and physically ill. But it would do you well to shut up until you read all of them. Moron, you’re not white-knighting me. A person white-knighting me wouldn’t have his/her comments edited every fucking time for some new outrageous defamatory lie. Fuck you, you idiot.

    “All I have to say is this: the situation you are finding yourself in is entirely your own fault. ”

    You deserve to have your wife raped in front of you for this comment. How dare you? My bullying, social anxiety, love-shyness and the subsequent consequences were my fault? What kind of a sick freak are you? You have no information to say that.

    “You have been given simple, practical advice on how to mitigate your misery (and I can only assume that I am not the only one to provide it), but you reject it out of hand. I would think if you so desperately wanted to end your incel, you would try anything, anything at all.”

    What “simple, practical advice”? To try a matchmaking service, which doesn’t even exist here? To approach women irl, which I don’t know how to do? What else?

    “Moreover, I can’t imagine any woman finding you desirable at all. Simply because of your characteristics as a person. You are stubborn, violent, cold, rude, insulting, and you completely lack empathy. I feel you are entirely incapable of providing a woman with love, compassion and support, and so from the most pragmatic standpoint I see no reason a woman would care to enter a relationship with somebody who has the emotional depth of a System of a Down CD.”

    Actually, all of these are 1. characteristics women adore 2. characteristics you have

    You are the proof that modern women go for mental patients, thugs, monsters and dumbasses.

    You stubbornly make assumptions and defamatory lies.

    You are violent in your stupid, strawmen filled attacks on me.

    You seem cold in how you treat incel.

    Your constant lies I have to edit, insults and attacks are beyond rude and insulting.

    Your complete lack of empathy is evident from you defending murderers who should have been killed years ago and from your idiotic idea that incels should work when there’s no point to them working at all.

    “As part of your lack of empathy, you don’t consider the inverse of relationships: what can YOU offer a woman? Think on that for a moment. Why would any woman be with you when you would change her existence for the worse? ”

    This question was already asked and replied to you, you fucktard. See how retarded you are?

    “You constantly talk about how you absolutely need a woman in your life, and feel like you implicitly deserve one (that dreaded “entitlement” word again), but I believe the inverse. I think women should be actively kept from you because you are wholly incapable of improving her life. You don’t deserve a woman because you are a bad person.”

    I don’t feel like that at all. You’re making up shit for the 3323th fucking time here and using a chance to use a sacred word of the liberals without it having any meaning.
    You go on by sinking into even more delusion and believing that women should be kept away from somebody (by whom?) or that a concept of deserving applies to dating, sex and relationships.

    “I initially thought you were just a misguided soul who, with the right help, could become a productive member of society. I certainly stand corrected. ”

    You thought that for all the wrong reasons and you are now corrected for all the wrong reasons. If you knew the truth you’d understand that it is too late for me. But you have yet to understand why.

    ” You are the very definition of a cancer on society. You are a tax leach for the sheer reason that you are too lazy to work; you are a violent criminal with multiple arrests and I’m telling lies again-TiB; and you are a psychological mess, deeply warped and broken.”

    Wrong. You are that cancer. You are a murderer of incels. You don’t want to help an incel but have the audacity to call him lazy when the reasons he doesn’t want to work are pain and utter senselessness of working as incel. You call me a criminal though I have no criminal record, and you make a gross defamatory lie in the edited part.

    “But all that aside, I propose this: think about all the people you have encountered in your life. If you can name one, just one, person who you feel has actually benefited from your existence, then I take it all back, all that I said before. Can you name just one person who would remember you fondly? Would your friends? Your family?”

    I don’t care about my family but I have some friends who have definitely benefited from my existence.

    “If you cannot name anybody, then you have succeeded in being a net drain on the human race. I have never met anybody with as few redeeming qualities as you, and I deeply pity the next woman you desperately cloy over.

    tl;dr version: you are a disgusting person, and you sicken me.”

    What you sadly fail to understand is that I could have been a productive member of society if only I had gotten help. Unfortunately, I never did. What I got was charlatanism and lunatics.

    And now that you have received this beating shut up for a while and educate yourself.

  15. So all liberals deserve to be massacred, without exception? Just rounded up and killed, no matter how moderate they are in their beliefs?

    How can you accuse others of being cold and unfeeling when you advocate mass murder?

    • There are some liberals who are decent. However, I think about 99 percent are too indoctrinated with fake concepts and their own sacred words like entitlement, privilege, patriarchy, rape culture etc that they’re not fit to live in a healthy society. I really don’t know what to do with such people. I fear they’d try to kill the guards and escape if they’d just be locked up and forced to work for us sane folks.

      edit- I know that some of these concepts are from sociology and have some value. But the way these lunatics use them has long surpassed any sanity. They use them more than Christians use “amen” and believe in them more than Christians do in god. They absolutely fucking worship them.

    • I explained this on Reddit once

      “I’ll try to explain why it is morally ok to kill TAC (btw, TAC is The Atheist Cult, not Club) members.

      You see, TAC members aren’t human beings at all. They are more like wild dogs or monsters from works of fiction. Mindless, braindead zombies. They have little in common with human beings. They are unable to create original thoughts or ideas. Verbally, they are limited to barking political correctness.

      One guy asked me how can I compare TAC to SS or Al-Qaeda. I simply asked him if SS or Al-Qaeda ever wanted to exterminate all the decent people in the world. I don’t think so. TAC will achieve exactly that if they’re not stopped. They’re too stupid to plan it like those two organizations did/do plan their crimes, which is even worse, because the entire process of extermination of all the decent people in the world will take longer and be more meandering.

      You can’t re-educate a TAC member. A TAC member is a modern 11th century leprous religious fanatic or a die-hard fascist whose endgame, despite him not being aware of it, IS EXTERMINATION OF EVERY SINGLE DECENT PERSON IN THE WORLD.

      What would you have people do with TAC members? Jail them? They would try to escape, they would try to kill guards…. It’s impossible.

      TAC members are worse than any religion because no religion worshiped their gods as much as TAC members worship theirs.

      Believe me, it would be better for TAC members to just be put down.

      Does this mean I will kill TAC members myself? No, because I fear legal retribution in doing so, as they are mistakenly seen as humans. But I will make damn sure that people understand that they’re not humans and outlaw them.”

  16. What does a person like you do on Christmas? How does your day look like?
    I just can´t imagine you sitting at the dining room table with your parents and relatives, passing the stuffing or decorating a tree… so tell us! :-D

  17. First of all…this fucking ‘get job’ crap. I used to work in a filthy rat infested foundry. Did it get me a woman? – No. I used to weight train. Did it get me a woman? No. Am I a pussyfied Mr Spoons? Nope. Spent most of my adult life hanging around with bikers, and I used to do full contact European martial arts. Did this get me a woman? Nope. I have tried internet dating, socialising, THE FUCKING WORKS – and it STILL has not got me a woman. I wasted TEN YEARS of my fucking life on a bitch who went and married my fucking SISTER. Have you ANY IDEA who at this does to a guy’s confidence.

    So now I have woken up to what women really are. Bitches. Pure and simple. Mentally unstable, disgusting fucking WHORES, who are of little use or value other than nice places to empty your balls. When I have evidence to the fucking contrary, I will reconsider my position.

    • A virgin, that hangs around with bikers… now I have seen everything. :-D
      But there is actually one interesting part in your rant: HOW did you “waste ten years” on a person, that went on to marry your sister (which is actually pretty hilarious if you give it a more down-to earth look) – I mean, what did you do? Like hoping to be together with her from the distance? If she ´s a lesbian, she wouldn´t have been interested in you anyway, wouldn´t she? Or are you talking about a guy and bi-sexuality and you just call him “bitch”?

      Anyway, I hope you calm down this christmas. Go for a walk, see if you can do volunteer work to that really needy ones. Give your life a meaning, eventually your self/world-hate will pass.

    • So now I have woken up to what women really are. Bitches. Pure and simple. Mentally unstable, disgusting fucking WHORES, who are of little use or value other than nice places to empty your balls. When I have evidence to the fucking contrary, I will reconsider my position.

      I see evidence to the fucking contrary every single day of my life. But I suspect that’s because I treat people as individuals rather than make sweeping assumptions about them en bloc.

      And I share WGW’s curiosity – how do you “waste ten years” on somebody and still remain a virgin? Weren’t there pretty clear signs that the relationship might not have legs after the first few weeks? I’ve had close female friends for considerably longer than that, and I’d be pretty horrified to find out that any of them had been burning a candle for me for that long, not least because it would make me question all sorts of other aspects of our friendship.

      (Amusingly, one of them turned out to be a lesbian – I say “amusingly” because she finally confessed to me several years after I worked it out for myself, although out of tact I pretended that it was a major revelation.)

      • Gojira pontificates:
        “I see evidence to the fucking contrary every day of my life.”

        No you don’t—you just ignore evidence to the contrary.

        “But I suspect that’s because I treat people as individuals, blah blah blah blah”

        I suspect it’s more because you don’t WANT to see.

      • Right. Shit Fer Brains. I’ll tell you why I wasted ten years on that cow. Because I had fallen in love with her. I wanted NOBODY ELSE BUT HER. During that time she was in a relationship with A MAN – a former friend of mine.

        I will hold my hands up; I was fucking stupid. I should have told her to get lost, and focussed my efforts on getting jacked up, so that I could get any bar slut going. But I didn’t. Like the good little mangina I was, I kept believing my own bullshit.

        Now, for the sake of peace, and the fact that I am utterly incapable of hating her, I have taken this body blow to my self confidence on the chin.

        As I cannot have her, the woman I wanted most in this entire shitty world, I now see women as sex objects and nothing more. this would be fine, except for the fact that (a) a recently diagnosed medical condition plus my age prevents me from getting jacked. And (b) the aforementioned medical condition has severely reduced my ability to earn even a basic income. For the very simple fact, I am literally a heart attack or stroke waiting to happen. I have a better than 30% chance of having either, and if I do, there is an 80% chance that I will not survive.

        So. I cannot attract women in the ‘normal’ way. I cannot pay for sex. All I have left is anger and frustration.

        I am waiting to die. It really is that simple. Unless I can find something to take my mind off this shit, I am going to end up doing something BAD. If you have any suggestions, let’s fucking hear them! I am all ears. I can’t even take fucking photographs any more. Despite having 30 years experience in the field. This is what my Incel has done to me.

  18. What was I supposed to gather? In a post full of arguments you chose to quote my insults and nothing else. You really are trolling at this point, aren’t you?

  19. THIS COMMENT IS SO STUPID, IT DESERVES NO ANSWER. BUT I AM GOING TO LET OTHERS SEE THIS SHIT. YOU BROUGHT THIS ON YOURSELF, CUNT.

  20. No you don’t—you just ignore evidence to the contrary.

    That’s a complete non sequitur. Since it’s a fact that the overwhelming majority of women in my life don’t fit Mikey’s stereotype, how exactly is “evidence to the contrary” going to cancel this out?

    What you’re arguing is the exact equivalent of this conversation:

    Man in desert: It’s all so dry! Water doesn’t exist!
    Man by sea: Of course it exists – I can see it in front of me.
    Eric: No you can’t – you just ignore evidence to the contrary.

    I suspect it’s more because you don’t WANT to see.

    Eric, I know you’re absolutely convinced that every woman is an evil duplicitous she-beast at base, but this really really isn’t the case. I am not the least bit stupid or gullible when it comes to relationships, as demonstrated by the fact that I’m usually the one who ends them – in one case because I turned up incontrovertible and unignorable evidence that my girlfriend of two months had lied to me about something important.

    Does that sound like the reaction of somebody who doesn’t WANT to see? I’d argue the exact opposite.

  21. Right. Shit Fer Brains. I’ll tell you why I wasted ten years on that cow. Because I had fallen in love with her. I wanted NOBODY ELSE BUT HER. During that time she was in a relationship with A MAN – a former friend of mine.

    Been there, done that. I’m sure we all have. But if someone’s unavailable, they’re unavailable – there’s no point mooching around expecting things to change, because the chances are that they won’t. Or at least not in the way that you might want.

    I will hold my hands up; I was fucking stupid. I should have told her to get lost, and focussed my efforts on getting jacked up, so that I could get any bar slut going. But I didn’t. Like the good little mangina I was, I kept believing my own bullshit.

    I don’t understand this obsession with “getting jacked up”. Most of the women I know actively dislike an overly muscular appearance – it suggests that the man in question spends too much time in the gym preening and not enough time doing something more worthwhile. In particular, getting “jacked up” isn’t going to help if you don’t have the ballsy personality to go with it. I’d look ridiculous as a muscled stud, as I just couldn’t carry off that look with a straight face – or at least not for very long.

    Now, for the sake of peace, and the fact that I am utterly incapable of hating her, I have taken this body blow to my self confidence on the chin. As I cannot have her, the woman I wanted most in this entire shitty world, I now see women as sex objects and nothing more.

    Believe me, I do sympathise – I carried a torch for someone for over two years, blithely ignoring the fact that she was unavailable for much of that time and had never shown anything other than polite friendliness towards me, and I still vividly remember the devastation when she told me point blank that she wasn’t sexually interested in me after I spent a week screwing up the courage to ask once I’d perceived a tiny window of opportunity.

    But why should she have said yes? I doubt I was much of a catch back then, we didn’t have a common first language (so conversations were somewhat limited as neither of us was fluent in the other’s native tongue), and in retrospect it’s obvious that I’d placed her on an impossibly idealised pedestal – being both foreign and slightly older than me made her seem much more tantalisingly alluring.

    Anyway, my immediate reaction was similar to yours: she was the only woman for me, I can’t imagine life without her, life’s not worth living, etc. etc. – and I’m pretty sure this lasted some time even after it became completely obvious that nothing was going to happen. But then I thought “This is silly”, moved on and never looked back – I hadn’t thought about her for literally years until just now. In fact, I’d be quite curious to dig out one of the two pictures I have of her if I can remember what I did with them, because I suspect that this former goddess would now look startlingly ordinary.

  22. Just answer me this ONE question. Put yourself in my shoes. Fat. Bald. Over forty. DYING. Don’t you think I’m entitled to feel bitter about the shitty fucking hand that I have been dealt? Or do I call it as I see it? And to hell with what dipshits like you think?

    • While you’re asking him what he wants here’s what I want from you – no more comments like the previous two ones that were deleted. Post normal stuff and you’ll be published.

  23. Of course you’re entitled to feel bitter, but I can’t fathom either the logic or the point of blaming ALL women for your predicament and/or regarding them as, to quote you directly, “mentally unstable, disgusting fucking WHORES, who are of little use or value other than nice places to empty your balls”. Surely this is the kind of terminally self-defeating attitude that will ensure that you never get the relationship that you’re after? In other words, what’s the point?

    It’s not remotely too late. I know people who didn’t find their perfect partner until they were older than you are now, and in a worse situation, including someone paralyzed from the waist down and confined to a wheelchair. Hell, I had a great-uncle who married for the first time when he was in his late seventies – we’d all assumed he was gay up to then, as no-one could recall any girlfriends.

    • “It’s not remotely too late. I know people who didn’t find their perfect partner until they were older than you are now, and in a worse situation, including someone paralyzed from the waist down and confined to a wheelchair. Hell, I had a great-uncle who married for the first time when he was in his late seventies – we’d all assumed he was gay up to then, as no-one could recall any girlfriends.”

      Ummm… Right.

      For somebody so often called insane I am surprised by the insanity of some of the commentators here on a daily basis.

      gojira, upcoming posts on this blog will explain why it can be too late for a man of 25, me in this case.

      I see no reason to give Mikey any false hope when his age is nearly double and his situation much more difficult. Not finding a perfect partner and not finding anybody at all to this age are very different things unfortunately.

      • I will try to be as succinct as possible here. I was going to launch in to an elaborate goodbye speech. After today, I will be gone from the Incel community. I no longer have the time or the energy to exchange witless banter with fucktards. Which, unfortunately, is what sites
        like this attract. Thatincleblogger – mate despite your damn near heroic efforts to enlighten people as to what Incel is and the effect it has upon a human being, it seems that you have been pissing in the wind. These fucking cunts will NEVER understand. How the fuck can they?

        The ONLY way to understand Incel is to experience it. I’m not talking about a three month dry spell. I am talking about DECADES of being without intimate contact. As foolhardy as this might seem, I will try to spell it out.

        The longer it goes on, the worse it gets. It begins to affect your thought process’s. It warps your personality. I suppose I am more fortunate than most (And if ANY of you fuckers start with that paedophile shit again I am going to fucking well lose my temper), inasmuch as I have a niece who shows me some affection. She keeps me (relatively) sane.

        But it is not the same as having a full sexual relationship with someone. As an Incel man, I feel like a complete, total and comprehensive FAILURE. I can’t even GET LAID. Never mind getting a well paid job. I have ZERO motivation to do anything. I am photographer with 30 years experience under his belt – AND I CANNOT TAKE PICTURES ANY MORE, I AM THAT DEMORALISED.

        I can’t FUCK…and I CANNOT TAKE PICTURES. This is what Incel has done to me. I fucking DESPISE women for what they have done to me.

        I am 48. I am out of condition. I am bald. I am broke. I am seriously ill. The only consolation I have is that with any luck, my heart condition will kill me, and FINALLY I will be at peace.

        So this is it. I am finished. Time to die.

        SEE YOU IN HELL MUTHAFUCKERS

  24. HOW THE FUCK CAN THERE BE A WORSE SITUATION THAN FUCKING DYING? I AM REAAAAAAALLLLLY CURIOUS TO KNOW WHAT THE FUCK IT IS, SHIT FER BRAINS.

  25. See, this is Wabbitry at it’s fucking absolute finest. It really is. You can’t write comedy like this. This proves my point entirely. Noncel Wabbits will fucking NEVER understand what Incel does to you. I rest my fucking case. ‘Nuff said.

  26. ”I highly doubt that. Take two identical men with identical looks, personality, etc., and present them to a woman. Tell her the one on the left has a job, and the other is unemployed. Which do you think she will choose?”

    Then this makes her a prostitute. It means she is only interested in money. Why go though this pretence when you can hire GENUINE prostitutes who ADMIT that they are only having sex with you for money?

    • So, what´s your fucking problem then?! Just go and hire a prostitute – problem solved!
      And don´t even try to give us “but that´s not a relationship” babble… you obviously don´t want a relationship with a woman as you see them – by your own words- as something “… to empty your balls”.

  27. ”Mikey, you will be perpetually alone until you have the capability to love a woman. If you can’t even respect one to begin with, well, my estimates aren’t high for you, and considering your hilariously backward attitude towards women, I have very little sympathy for you.”

    NOBODY loved a woman on this earth MORE than I loved my ex oneitis. NOBODY respected a woman more than I respected my ex oneitis. The fact that I still respect her ensures that she leaves my house with her fucking teeth intact. Don’t you fucking get it? How do you NOT understand? Seeing her marry my sister COMPLETELY destroyed my faith in the female sex. I am broken. Mentally and emotionally. Physically too now. This has been caused in no small part by my Incel.

    I am asking you nicely now. What would you do, in my shoes? I will listen to ANY reasonable suggestions. But given the fact that I cannot regenerate like Dr Who, how the FUCK can I even attract a woman? I cannot work. So I have no money. My health means that I shall probably NEVER work again, and also I will become sicker and sicker until I die. So tell me. I have looks I cannot ‘fix’. I have zero income. WHAT DO I FUCKING DO?

    • Mikey, what we know so far about your … well… did you even HAVE a relationship with her?

      1) She was in a relationship with someone else while she was your “oneitis”
      2) She is married to a woman, which is your sister

      So what happened in between? You said, you never had full penetrative sex and didn´t have intimate contact until recently, so it´s pretty obvious it was NOT a menage a trois with this woman.
      Was is just a one-sided obsession then, Mikey?
      You can´t say she did something wrong, when NOT Leaving her man and jumping right at you just because you wanted her…

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